For me a feminist is someone who supports equal rights between men and women. There is no set appearance, sexuality, education level, religion or any other social characteristic that dictates whether someone is a feminist or not. Take a look at this video:
What do you think? Surprised by any of the responses? Maybe not surprised, but disappointed. Yes. I am.
So, this article I read, it was all about renaming feminism. Making it more socially acceptable. Softer. Jezebel solicited suggestions and the following list was created:
Misogylypse
Non-Cookers
Flesh-Hungry Young Slutism
Lieutenant Ripleyism
Legitabitch
Reallyism (as in "really? In 2011 that's acceptable behavior or thought to have about women? really?")
Equality for everyone regardless of their genitals
Equaligasm (an adherent of equaligasm would be an equaligasmitist)
Vagarchy
She-quality
FYATPHPHYRIO? (Pronounced Fee-Aht-Fee-Ree-Oh): Fuck You And The Privileged Heterosexist Patriarchal Horse You Rode In On
GEM (Gender Equality Movement)
eGALitarian
Clitanetics
Decency (feminists are "decentists.")
Vaginist
Femalicious
Vagenius
Feminis-awesome
Gendequality
Equalia
Genégalitism
Equalettes
Gynocrat
Vagitarian
Uteritarian
Antiobjectificationist
Diva-is-a-female-version-of-a-hustla-ism
Gynequity
and special mention to [a symbol of our choosing]
Non-Cookers
Flesh-Hungry Young Slutism
Lieutenant Ripleyism
Legitabitch
Reallyism (as in "really? In 2011 that's acceptable behavior or thought to have about women? really?")
Equality for everyone regardless of their genitals
Equaligasm (an adherent of equaligasm would be an equaligasmitist)
Vagarchy
She-quality
FYATPHPHYRIO? (Pronounced Fee-Aht-Fee-Ree-Oh): Fuck You And The Privileged Heterosexist Patriarchal Horse You Rode In On
GEM (Gender Equality Movement)
eGALitarian
Clitanetics
Decency (feminists are "decentists.")
Vaginist
Femalicious
Vagenius
Feminis-awesome
Gendequality
Equalia
Genégalitism
Equalettes
Gynocrat
Vagitarian
Uteritarian
Antiobjectificationist
Diva-is-a-female-version-of-a-hustla-ism
Gynequity
and special mention to [a symbol of our choosing]
But the winner?
Equalism
I'm not going to lie, some of these suggestions are funny. Some I don't like. And some, well, are very bluntly correct, in my opinion.
So what is wrong with feminism? Do we really need a new word? Is there harm in using a new word? Won't it too just be labeled and negatively sanctioned?
I think this topic is important because we're picking on a word. A word that symbolizes equality between sexes. Is it really a battle against a word, or is it really a battle against equality, which our society is scapegoating a word?
If you'd like to read the jezebel article, click here.
Personally, I like the word feminism. I like it because when it makes me uncomfortable, you get a chance to ask why, clarify misunderstandings about what it means, and why the idea of strong, independent, equal females is upsetting to some.
ReplyDeleteI define feminism in the same way you do, as being all about equality between men and women. Not to say that there are no differences, but to say that I should not be denied basic rights and respect simply because of the genetalia I was gifted with. I think most feminists agree with the idea that feminism is about equality, and that's probably why Equalism won. I suspect, however, that use of this word would then have people in a tizzy about how feminists are communists and want everything handed to them (clearly not true, but words will be twisted).
My favorite from the list? "Fuck You And The Privileged Heterosexist Patriarchal Horse You Rode In On." And that's because it adequately describes my EXTREME frustration, which sometimes turns into anger, at the fact that really, in 2011 it's still ok to pretend women aren't worth anything, really? Of course, this doesn't help our reputation...
(oh, and I married a feminist. so I do believe that men can be feminists. They just sometimes don't completely understand)